Exposed

Ooops....my SIL (husbands sister who I talked about in great detail on this blog) found my other personal blog....eek! I didn't go into nearly as much detail as I did here (I've since taken down those posts tho I may put them back). I didn't identify her but I know she recognized herself because of the situation. I believe I used the term narcissist more than once (which tho better than 'bitch', I'm sure wasn't appreciated) and talked about her cruelty to myself and my husband and her exasperating habit of dumping her garbage and guilt onto others...specifically me. She shared it with several people, including hubbys brother (I have a tracker and bro uses a company computer).

Neither one has mentioned it, tho she hasn't actually talked to us in months anyway. We told her after all the crap she said about us (in emails) that we needed a break from her until she was willing to sit down and talk to us...so far she has refused. In a way I'm relieved that my side of the 'story' was heard; she has refused to talk to me from the beginning even tho it was me who pissed her off....my husband was just collateral damage because he took my side (duh). But I worry about how she will portray my writing about her 'on the Internet'. I'm sure she will tell everyone that I was sharing personal stuff with the world (tho my blog is only read by about 5 people....on a good day). And there are people in the family that I actually care about.

I do admit that venting on a blog about personal issues is probably not the best idea in the world...but I truly thought she would never see it....she hates the computer...and I have since taken down the 3 posts that were specific to her. A couple others are still up that she might take personally (because they fit) but they are more general to several family members (post on my brother and SIL below). I did several posts on fake apologies and mean emails but they apply to everyone....including ME.